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new URL/ what to do about the blog!

Posted by Elizabethquiver at 01:52 PM on February 10, 2009 Comments comments (0)
Recently I've been trying to figure out how to manage my site.  Because it's public anyone can type in my URL and visit it.  (Though I have it set to be hidden from some links)  I like that in some ways because people who like to keep up with our family casually that I meet here and there, can visit when they want, no hassle.  You don't have to be a member of freewebs (or just WEBS as they are calling it now) to leave me comments and sign the guest book.  If someone leaves a comment I don't appreciate, or they give info that I don't think they (or I) really would like posted for the public I read it, post it somewhere else so I can save it, then delete it.  But I still don't feel fee enough to just write about anything.  I don't want it to be a diary with terribly private things, but I do want to write freely enough that I'll be motivated to update.  Right now I'm updating less than once I month.  I really appreciate some friends' blogs and families that post a couple times a week.  They are so fun to read and encourage me.  I love keeping up with some large families with kids from all over the place.  It's my favorite type of blog, family life on the extreme size!  Some of them have made their's private, so that I have to be a member of that particular company to see.  (i.e. xanga, blogger, wordpress) but others are public.  I keep wavering between the two.  Some people do both, but I'd either do one of the other, I really don't think I could do two.  I barely keep up with one. *sigh*  It's not like I'm that busy, I spend time reading alot of blogs!  I just don't like having to sensor everything I write!!

I'll keep thinking about it.  If anyone has any great tips, I'd love to hear them!  My brains tired of the subject. :o)

Oh, and my URL is now  sgafsisterlife.webs.com  The site has changed their name.  I could leave it how it was, but this is shorter, so I like it better.

~Elizabeth

Seeing some of "my" Taiwan babies again!

Posted by Elizabethquiver at 12:42 PM on January 31, 2009 Comments comments (0)
Hello everyone!

I thought those of you that kept up with my mission internship in Taiwan would enjoy this update.  Many of you got familiar with several of the cute faces of the babies I helped take care of and followed some of their stories.

This past weekend I traveled with my mom and younger brother and sisters to visit Missouri.  Every year there is a Chinese New Year celebration there for families who've adopted from the children's home I worked at, and others who've been involved with their ministry.  It's a great way to have a reunion among the families and people (like me) who've volunteered at the Home.  We left Saturday morning and got there in the early afternoon.  One of the families I know there offered that I could stay at their home.  Their 4 year old son and 1 year old daughter are both adopted from the home.  I took care of their daughter while I was in Taiwan, and got to know them a little bit when they came to get her.  It was wonderful to see her again, walking around on two little legs and completely secure with her family.

That afternoon another family came over for awhile to visit at their house.  They also had two little ones from the home, one of them being Sophie.  She was the one whose birth family took her back not too long after she first came to the Home in Taiwan.  We prayed alot over her, and I remember mentioning her in my updates.  Thankfully she was brought back to us, and now she is home with her forever family!  Except for all her hair, walking around and chubbier, she's like I remember.  She still has the same cry, and chatting sounds!  She seemed to warm up to me after awhile and liked playing with me. I doubt it's because she remembers me, but it was fun all the same.

I think that all the babies I helped take care of in Taiwan are in the States with their adoptive families now.  I didn't get to see even close to all of them at this reunion, but I did get to see eight of "my" babies, and that was more than I expected!  It was wonderful, with a few surprises too.

After spending the afternoon with the families I mentioned above we went to the Chinese New Year celebration that evening.  The first familiar face that I spotted was Nya's.  I could see her mother (who I met when she came to Taiwan also) and a little toddler with long black hair sleeping in her lap. Nya's face was still the exact same I remember, except with lots more hair.  She woke up later and I got to hold her briefly and watch her toddle around looking at things.

The next one I saw was "little" Mason.  He was the younger of the two Masons we had at the Home, though he isn't little anymore!  Again, he was taller, and had more hair, but it was still the same face.  He was pretty quiet because of all the commotion, but didn't fuss when I held him for a picture.  I got to meet Zaya's parents and hold her again as well.  I didn't recognize her as fast because she was still so young when I left, so it's a big change from last time I saw her.  I also saw Yi Gen (now Lilli) who was the youngest baby when I left, and had gotten Pneumonia at one point and had to be rushed to the hospital.  She's as chubby as I remember but much taller!  I was surprised to also see Jackson, who left very soon after I arrived.  I only helped take care of him a short time, but I remember his parents well since I met and spent some time with them when they came to get him.

Here's the biggest surprise of the evening!  I was wandering around the large room saying hi to a few others I knew when I spotted a baby girl in daddy's arms.  Her back was to me, so I read her name tag to see if I recognized the name.  It said Leah, which I remember was what someone told me Mei Ai's adoptive family named her when they were matched.  I didn't know the family's name because I left before that happened.  I walked around to the other side so I could look at her face and I think my heart must have skipped a few beats!  The beautiful little face and fine dark hair looked very familiar.  I waited while the dad finished a conversation he was having with someone else before introducing myself to both of them (By that time his wife had joined him).  I asked if this was Mei Ai, and he confirmed that it was.  I excitedly told him that I was there when she came to the Home and was there through the scary ordeal with her heart.  I reached over and stroked her hair as if to confirm that the little face that was looking at me was real.  They were also excited to meet me, and told me that Leah had been home with them for a month and that she was now off of all heart medication.  Praise God, was all I could think! 

This is also due to those of you that prayed for this little baby!  She's now 11 months old and already walking.  She demonstrated this for me, and it was adorable to see such a petite little thing taking those little steps around like nothing traumatic had ever happened to her.  My mom and siblings were overjoyed to meet her.  I couldn't wait to let those who've followed her story and prayed for her know the miracle that God did in her!  Now he's blessed her with a family and a family with her.




Happy Chinese New Year!

pictures

Posted by Elizabethquiver at 10:36 PM on January 02, 2009 Comments comments (0)
I'm currently uploading photos from the past few months into an album in my photo gallery.  Check them out here. 
http://www.freewebs.com/sgafsisterlife/apps/photos/

Happy New Year!

Josh and Mercy grooving on Christmas Eve

alive

Posted by Elizabethquiver at 09:32 AM on December 02, 2008 Comments comments (0)
Though it's been over a month, I'm still alive.

I haven't used the internet nearly as much recently because the computers have been doing the dosey-do around the house.  First Ben's new computer that he's been assembling was in the living room with internet and I'd use that, but it is brand new and was out-gassing terrible and creating quite a strong smell.  (Which makes my mom sick) So then it got moved into Josh's room, but it doesn't have internet now.  So that just left the downstairs computer, which always seemed to be used when I went to use it.  Then my dad put his lap top where Ben's computer used to be and hooked it to the internet so that we'd have one more.  Well it worked SO slow and freeze after a few clicks, so I didn't want to even try updating on that for fear that I'd lose everything partway through!  Now Daddy's laptop is gone, and in its place is Ben's old computer that he's not using now that he's got his new one!  So here I am again!

As of Friday we've been under construction and reorganizing again.  It's partly my fault actually.  I was talking with Mommy about maybe going through the house with some big trash bags and collecting a bunch of throw away and give away stuff.  We've been really needing to just junk out a bunch of stuff.  In Americans standards we're still great, but really, how much stuff does one family REALLY need?  How many toys do kids REALLY have to have to be content?  Kids actually play better when they aren't overwhelmed with choices I'm figuring out.
Anyway, so my mom liked this idea and said, "Okay, let's set a date!"  So we decided on Friday, the day after thanksgiving.  She wanted to get this done before decorating for Christmas and getting out MORE stuff.  Well as we kept talking about it she kept coming up with more things that should happen also while we're doing this.  And the major one was clearing out the storage room and making in usable again.  There's a pretty good sized storage room downstairs and we hadn't quite gotten to the point where you open the door and stuff tumbles out on top of you, but we were getting pretty close.  You could hardly maneuver into the doorway.

Then Friday morning as she was getting more and more that "thinking" look on her face at breakfast, I built of the nerve to ask her what about.  She took me into Grace and Mercy's room and unloaded her idea of moving Samuel out of his curtained off corner of the family room so what we could have the whole room down there again.   So the obvious question is, where to put him.  Which is where we come to the bedroom upstairs down the hallway from my parents room, which Grace and Mercy are using.  Keep in mind that we have switched rooms around more times than I can remember as we've settled into and added on and added on to this originally 2 bedroom home.  (It's now 6 bedrooms)  Josh is no longer using his room, accept when he comes home for visits from school, but it's in the very far end of the house. (where we turned the garage into 3 bedrooms and bathroom, and connected it to the house)  The only room in a good location and obvious choice was where the girls were.  So then we thought about the idea of moving all toys out of the girl's room and combining them with the ones downstairs and put them in the family room, since we'd have the full room with Samuel out of there. 

So to speed up the story, that's what we did!  So now all the younger kids are in the bedroom by my parents.  We've made that basically the sleeping room for them.  Their beds, clothes, and some books, are the only stuff that's in there besides pictures and decorations.  Samuel's on the top bunk that the girl's have been using.  The bottom bunk has been removed and Grace and Mercy have a large photon bed on the floor underneath it.  They sleep the other direction underneath the bunk, so there's plenty of space for both.  (I'll try to get a photo and post it for next time.)

So far this has worked really well, the kids thought it was great fun, the girl's especially.  They love their new bed and haven't had a problem sharing it.  (Much to my surprise.  When I was their age I moved around like crazy in my sleep)  Samuel wasn't so sure at first because he knew with the toys combined downstairs that he'd have to share more.  (He's very possessive of his stuff)  But now he's enjoying the security of being closer to Daddy and Mommy, and relaxing about the other stuff.  I think he'll sleep better not isolated, and it's been good for him.

So in the process of moving all the toys around that gave us a chance to sort though them and unjunk. (Yes, I know that's not word)  We also then rearranged the family room to accommodate the play things, the school area, the couch, and the music stuff.  (It's a big room)  After we did all that we made it all messy again by completely emptying the dreaded storage room of all it's stuff.  Then Daddy took apart the shelves in there, insulated the room, and built different shelves!  Then we continued to sort stuff to get rid of as we put everything to keep carefully and nicely arranged back into the store room.  (Oh, and during that we defrosted the deep freezer!)  That brings us to now (4 days later) and we're basically back to normal with things almost all put away. 

Yikes, I should think twice next time before talking about "junking out!"
All of it needed to happen though, and things look and feel better now!

I need to get off the computer to get a few things done before Baby J. arrives.  Baby B. is also coming this afternoon, so I better get moving.
I'll try to post pictures when I'm downstairs next time.  None of our digitals are on this computer.

If you made it through all of that I commend you.  I'm not going to go back and reread all of it so forgive the spelling and grammar!

~Elizabeth




interesting video clips

Posted by Elizabethquiver at 05:44 PM on October 24, 2008 Comments comments (2)
I've been on a youtube and godtube browsing rampage recently because of being linked to it for a bunch of videos.  Political, music videos, news, comedians and much more.  Anyway, here's a few that a found interesting.  (some of you have probably seen a few of these)

Christian comedian on the pledge of allegiance
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uaCi_JJLCyY

Comedian, Michael Jr./ jogging
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=byFMok9lXaU&feature=related

Mark Lowry
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0kR_XG1DnDs

Music video to the movie Fireproof (If you haven't seen it GO SEE IT!!)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u3b2jw1rjBc

Obama, Infanticide
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BYRpIf2F9NA&feature=related

A baby mimicking a preacher, hilarious!
http://www.godtube.com/view_video.php?viewkey=9c69d4acc9dd49eaf89f

These are just a few, but they are enough to keep you busy for now.  They are a strange mixture of serious and funny, watch them in any order you like!

My aunt is visiting for a couple of days.  We're happy for her to be here.  I packed up the porta-crip so Josh's room (which has been a nursery for Baby J. and Baby B. when they're here) can become a guest room again.
Speaking of the babies, we're enjoying Baby B. (Who's just starting coming this week.)  He's pretty laid back and fun one month old.

On a funny kid note we were sitting around the table talking about Josh's upcoming salsa dance thing that he and some college friends will be going to.  None of us, (including Josh untill he looked it up to find out how appropriate it was) really know what salsa dancing is so we were kind of laughing at the name.  Grace said, "So they spred some salsa around and dance on it?"
Then Samuel came up with, "Maybe they eat salsa and dance at the same time!"
There were a few other riduculas suggestions, but you get the idea.

~Elizabeth




Flood and Baby J.

Posted by Elizabethquiver at 06:04 PM on October 15, 2008 Comments comments (0)
Today our home is an island.  Samuel keeps asking me if we have a boat so that we can go floating in our flooded yard.  We have a creek that's mostly dry accept for when it rains alot, and then it fills up fast and overflows into the yard quite quickly.  Thankfully even though it comes very close to the house, our house has never flooded.

Here's some photos of the kids and Baby J.


Mercy in another one of her costumes.  I thought this was quite the perfect Muslim outfit.  She was pretending the part very well, even making up a foreign language to go with it.

So happy with their new buddy

Samuel and Baby J.  Look at the grins on their faces!  Baby J. lit up RIGHT when I snapped the photo.

Mercy giving him a kiss

Grace and Baby J.
Yes he slept through this whole supervised holding session

Here's a shot to prove that he doesn't sleep ALL the time!

Feeding him some dinner


Parting shot: Me and the kids walking to church a couple of Sundays ago.  It's about half a mile, across the field in front of our house and a block or so down pavement after that.
We all wore mud boots and carried our church shoes and Bibles.

~Elizabeth


Apples, Fall, Baby

Posted by Elizabethquiver at 07:29 PM on October 13, 2008 Comments comments (0)
It's finally starting to feel like fall to me around here.  September was a very warm month, and so was the beginning of October.  Today, though, it's brisk and very chilly.  It's also very rainy so I didn't take the tromp outdoors that I usually would.

All September we've been dealing with mountains of apples from our apple tree.  It had an extremely prolific year.  We gave a bunch away and had others come pick to their hearts content and STILL had them overflowing in our house.  We have a freezer full of applesauce for the winter, and some finely chopped apples, (that are great to go on pancakes, salads and lots of other stuff) and I made many gallons of apple juice with our juicer.  Not to mention all the bags full of dried apple slices that we dried in the dehydrator. (They're one of my favorite snacks now, they've got a wonderful flavor!)
We're just now feeling like we've come to the end of them with only about one box still sitting over "yonder." (the far end of the house where Grandma and my bedrooms are, plus a storage area)

Here's some photos from our apple work.



Daddy and Samuel

Mercy

Grandma joining the fun

Me

Samuel and Grace cutting and coring

Mommy making applesauce


Toward the end of September I had quite a few child care jobs that I was doing (volunteering for a Bible study and MOPS) and started taking care of a 6 week old baby boy.  They bring him to our house, so I'm still able to do school work and help around the house.  He sleeps more than anything at this stage, so it's not difficult.  It's hard to see one or two babies being  really difficult after helping take care of 12 to 21 of them!
I'll post pictures if his mama's Ok with that later.
Everyone's been happy to have a baby around.  The kids of been especially excited.  They've all gotten a chance to hold him under close supervision sitting in the corner of the couch. 
I knew Grace would love it but Samuel has also loved the baby, which has been surprising.  Usually he never likes things at first that are out of his control or unpredictable but he's been so crazy about baby J.  He'll hold his little hand and laugh and point out every little thing he does.
Mercy already is sort of possessive over him.  When she found out that I'll be starting to care for another baby (a newborn that I'd previously promised to help out with before he was born) and might have to quit taking care of baby J., she was quite unhappy about it.
But today I was able to give the kids the happy news that baby B. would be coming over mostly at different times so I could still take care of baby J.  I'm sure they'll all fall in love with baby B. too.  (In fact they've already met him once, to which Samuel said to the mom, "AWW, I just LOVE little babies!")
 I think having a baby around is healthy for everyone.  From Grandma on down!

~Elizabeth






August photos

Posted by Elizabethquiver at 04:48 PM on September 02, 2008 Comments comments (0)
Since I haven't posted any pictures recently I thought that's what I'd do for my post today, instead of rambling. *wink*


Another Kansas beauty

Grace with her doll who's hair she had just finished braiding and beading

Ebony giving Miss Kitty her ritual ear wash.

This is what Mercy wore for her portrait that she got taken.  All the younger kids got new portraits.  I can't share them though, because they aren't digital and I haven't scanned them.

This is how I did Mercy's hair the day before her portrait.

Here is our brand new sanctuary in our brand new church building.  Our church had our first Sunday in it the beginning of August.

Samuel looking sharp in his Mexican hat that Josh brought back for him from Mexico.  Daddy and Josh took a vision trip to Mexico with two other men from our church the beginning of August.
 
Grace with her self-built (from a kit) and self painted bird house

Samuel with his.  The paint was on so thick I was afraid it wouldn't dry, so I explained that to him and helped him brush I bit of it off.  The opposite of Grace who forgot to paint a few places! (It seems to always work that way)

This is Mercy's current hair 'do' that I did a few weeks ago. (It doesn't look this good now in case you're wondering!)

Ben on his unicycle. (It turned out blury because it was digitally lightened on the computer)

Josh at the demolition derby.  This was back in July.  Josh is now in Virginia at Liberty University.  He's finishing up his degree in government he started with their distant learning program.

OK, that's all folks!

In HIM,
~Elizabeth



White Jesus

Posted by Elizabethquiver at 08:48 PM on August 19, 2008 Comments comments (0)

That may seem like a strange title, for those of you who have a light skin color.  White Jesus may just make you think of the "light" of Jesus, his purity, ability to make us white as snow and so on.  To those of you with dark skin often our thoughts flip over, even if briefly, to the color of Jesus' skin.  What color was it anyway?  This subject popped up in a round about way one evening a few weeks ago when I was reading Samuel and Grace their bed time story.  Daddy and Mommy were gone for the evening and Mercy had already been put to bed  For some reason night time is deep thinking time.  At least it is for me and the kids.  That's where I seem to have the most convicting and Jesus filled experiences, and where kids often seem to start the most serious conversations.

So as we finished reading our story in the Bible, our discussion wandered into the area of race and color of skin.  I asked the question at one point
"Why do think it is that the Bible doesn't talk much about the color of  people's skin?" 
Samuel and Grace really thought about this one and didn't seem to have a clue.  I commented that I thought it must not matter too much or God would have had someone write about it. 
After all what's most important to God is talked about in the Bible!  This was something I myself had been thinking about quite a bit so I felt compelled to share my thoughts on it and have them share theirs.

After they'd pondered on that a minute I then said, "You know that Bible never mentioned the color of Jesus' skin either, people seem to just get ideas about what He looked like from pictures that other people have drawn."
Grace then said,
"Yes, but I KNOW that Jesus had white skin." 
I looked her strait in the eye and said, "How?  How do you know that?" 
She looked confused and acted like I had asked a rather dumb question,
"Well just look at the pictures in all our children's Bibles!"

Think about this for a minute please.  Pick up just about ANY children (or even adult) Bible that has pictures in it and all the people are illustrated with light skin.  Jesus himself is this white robbed with a blue sash thing, light skinned, flowy brow hair, and sometimes even blue eyes.  Where on earth did we get THAT picture?  Most of the most famous painting of Jesus also fall into these descriptions.  My Sunday school teacher once asked when we think of Jesus what's the first image that comes to mind.  I was disappoint
ed to realize that everyone else in that class, myself included, basically had a picture of some sort of famous painting come to mind.  And how can we not when that's all the input that's given?  Now I also do not know how Jesus looked, so I'm not about to give an opposite detailed description.  I DO remember in one verse in the Bible it saying that he wasn't anything special to look at.  I'll have to search the scriptures to find that reference before I share the exact words, but that was the meaning I gathered from it.  That his physical appearance wasn't anything amazing, so I do imagine that he looked pretty native to the area and fit the looks of his heritage.  Think about all the Pharisees and Sadducees that kept scoffing at the idea that He could be anything from God because they KNEW where He came from, this "Jesus of Nazareth."

So after that declaration from Grace I quickly said,
"Yes, but where does it actually say that in the Bible?  Ignore that pictures for a minute, that's just what other people drew, people that never actually met Jesus face to face any more than you have."  (I'm sure this is not exactly what I said, but I'm just trying to give you the gist)
I looked over at Samuel's deeply furrowed brow as he thought about this one.  Neither of them could come up with anything and neither could I.
We moved on from there to talk about other racial things. 
We live in a town where AA people are in an extreme minority, something that is a bit difficult for a family like ours with huge skin tone differences.  We haven't had any racial problems or people treating any of us badly because of it, but it still makes someone feel weird and stuck out to be in such a minority.
Samuel and Grace both expressed their feelings of anxiety and
frustration on this.  When we first joined our church, the 3 in our family with dark skin were the only ones in the church, now they make up about half of the darker skinned people in our church.  Samuel shed some tears over it all, as he out of all of them really struggles with his background.  He doesn't really like remembering his past or being reminded in any way of West Africa.  He usually doesn't react strongly enough for others to notice, but when you really talk with him about it he is quite emotional.

I would love someone to research and study the heritage of Jesus
extensively and work with some artists to make a beautifully illustrated children's Bible with authentic looking people.  Unless this is God inspired and done well resulting in a quality Bible, there is no point.   There are thousands of types of Bibles out there, I don't want this to be just another one to add to the stack.  It needs to have new ideas and fresh, God given inspiration.
Another idea is, if they make all these "western" children's Bibles with these white white people in them, then forget all the research and just make a "black" Bible.  One with ALL dark, brown skinned people in it. 
"Well," some might be thinking, "but that wouldn't be accurate and would be giving the kids the wrong impression!"  Does it?  Anymore than all those "white" Bibles?  Where did we get our info about that?
If this project is a success, why not do it for other people groups?  Make Asian looking and South American looking children Bibles.  It's just a thought. 

I'm not trying to make everything "fair" for this is impossible!  But because of all our white illustrated Bibles and resources, it seems that people all over the world think now that Jesus, God himself, is only a WHITE God!!  When my family was given resources on the mission field in Ghana for churches and Sunday schools and Pastor and Bible conferences, anything with illustrations had these perfect, clean, light, pale looking people. 

Imagine, (if you aren't already) you were a person in another country with dark shiny brown skin.  You are the one sitting in a chair or on the floor on the other side of things and looking at this felt board, or bulletin board or whatever with these pristine illustrations.  Would you feel like you were being presented the gospel truth about God who came in man form to save the whole world from their sin, or would you think that these white people were just trying to bring their white religion into their country.

Being Christian isn't being a white American, it isn't being a black American, it isn't being European or from European decent.  It is not confined to any race, language, tribe, country or continent.  When we trace it back to the beginning we'll realize we all descend from the same man and woman, and made in God's image.  Let's show our brothers and sisters that.  Let's remember God is not confined to any race. 

 In HIM,
~Elizabeth  

West African family picture

Posted by Elizabethquiver at 10:53 AM on July 08, 2008 Comments comments (0)

Here's our most recent family photo.  It was taken a couple of weeks ago when we were the speakers for one Sunday at the multi generational mission Sunday school class.  We all wore West African outfits.  All the outfits are either from Liberia or Ghana.
My mom has been one of the leaders for this class, and it's been doing very well.  Every Sunday many kids and adults show up for the class about people groups from around the world.

Next week I will be the guest speaker for the section on a people group in China.  I'll be talking about Taiwan and Buddhists.



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